Human beings are social creatures it is natural that we desire to be with someone that we have a natural attraction with; this is why many relationship experts’ right so many video and websites on how to be happy being single. There is a time and a season for everything and during the season of singleness is a time of reflection.
During this season of being single, it is a great time for you to work on you. You do not have the perfect but you are no good either if you are broken. Seasons are not permanent; seasons are always changing. While in this season of singleness, you should prepare for the person of your dream.
Work on you
These are only a superficial sense of who you are. How can you express the real you if you do not know or cannot express the real you? Take this opportunity in this season of being single to learn how to express your true desires. What is it that you are looking for out of your next relationship? As long as you cannot answer that question enjoy your season of singleness.
Working For The Better
There is a famous saying “I can do badly by myself.” You do not need help to stay where you are, nor do you need help to excel to where you want to be. You should not come out of the season of singleness in the same state that you entered in. Better yourself, to be confident in who you are, and let that confidence come from a place with you, and from an externals source. Rely on self to make decisions about you, and not external sources.
As time goes on and you go to baby showers, engagement parties, weddings that natural urge to be with someone will be strong. Be patient! Your time is coming till then continue to work on you. Yes, life continues to move forward although it may seem as if your life is at a standstill. In reality, your life, the quality of your life is being enriched! Another famous saying is that” good things come to those who wait.” If it was easy than everyone can do it, waiting is one of the hardest things to do. Humans in general are not patient creatures.
Love Loving You
Love of who you are! When you’re in love with yourself this is the source of your confidence. This love for yourself up to is also the wall that protects your self-esteem. It doesn’t matter what people think of you. It doesn’t matter what people may say about you for you to keep up. Because you love you, you are happy. There are always critics, and there always haters this love for yourself protects you from all of them. You must first learn how to love yourself before you can love anyone else.